Feelings don't come with a sign

 we come to life. we live it and we leave it. 

For a second, we don't remember precisely how we were living. But, surely we remember how we felt it. We might forget the thought but we can never forget the feeling. Feelings are always here and there for us. A feeling will always find its way back, maybe with a little push or a little help. 

You may never know what made you feel that way, exactly that way. None would understand it. None would live it the way you did. Feelings are totally, completely and deeply subjective. The way you feel the wind touching your face or the way you feel the rain dancing with your skin. It's the same for all the other feelings; hate, love and even anger. 

People tend to describe anger as a negative feeling. Whereas, people tend to describe love as a positive feeling. I honestly believe that feelings don't come with a sign. But reactions do. Our reaction is the process of putting signs to our feeling. An angry person might do harm to himself or to others, this is surly negative. Here the reaction is doing harm, which is completely a negative one. But, anger may also lead the person to change his behavior or to improve it. And then anger might be positive. On the other hand, loving something can lead to destruction. You can love something really bad that you even forget about yourself. You start to destroy your inner self hoping to reach that specific thing you love. It's then clear that we give our feelings a sign based on the reaction we made. 

Unfortunately, it's a hard task to control our reactions. At the end of the day, we are still humans. Feelings and reactions are a human nature. But knowing this may help us to stop judging people based on their feelings and reactions, and start to remember that we are all the same. we do mistakes and we take the wrong decisions. Last time I checked, we are still humans. Not machines ...